HAPPINESS is having all of YOU.
REMODEL YOUR RELATIONSHIP
If you've tried all the things but end up stuck with the same problem you started with
...there isn't enough YOU to make it go right.
Learn how to change your brain physiology, improve communication and relationship dynamics, get a handle on your emotions...have more you in your life so you can
BE CONFIDENT + HAPPY AF...in just 90 DAYS!
Heal from trauma. Break up with insecurity and emotional overload. Get Un-Stuck. Get out of Your Head. Get out of survival and into thrival.
CAN YOU RELATE?
Feeling lonely, invisible, misunderstood?
Don't feel like you really fit in anywhere (or you're not from here)?
Lose yourself in relationships?
Having a hard time letting go of resentment?
Having the same argument or problem over and over?
Struggle with anxiety, depression, or ADHD?
Desperate for confidence or clarity?
Tired of trying so hard?
You're a hot mess and you know it?
These are common symptoms experienced by individuals who are highly sensitive, highly driven, and self-aware (often to the point of self-consciousness).
These are signs there isn’t enough of you.
…NOT an indication that something is wrong with you; that you aren’t enough.
How you see yourself and show up in your life is now more a product of the past—programming, habit, and trauma response—than you.
…Until Now…
You Can Be Confident and Happy
…when you shift to a Future Forward Focus ™
I'm Dr. JOYLYN Sparkles
I struggled for decades with eating disorders, depression, abuse, and failing relationships—all fueled and held in place by my deeply held insecurities and low self-esteem.
I spent years and thousands of dollars in therapy; countless hours crying, looking for what was wrong with me so I could fix it and finally like myself, be happy, and make my marriage work.
I knew if I didn’t figure things out, I was looking ahead to a lifetime of unhappiness. I was bored and exhausted with being an emotional basket case. I feared that loneliness and stuckness were going to be my legacy and that happiness just "wasn't meant to be" for me.
(INSERT GAME-CHANGING PLOT-TWISTING EPIPHANY)
What I discovered was that the “answer”⏤the secret to happiness⏤could never be found by looking for what was wrong—with me or with any relationship.
The reason that things were stuck and I was so unhappy was because I had no relationship with me. I was missing from my life and relationships.
… I also discovered was that there were so few people who were actually talking about this honestly.
The information we were given and the models we had weren’t good.
The information available about relationships, communication, healing and confidence is outdated or completely inaccurate…and still concentrated on fixing the problem. But most importantly, it isn’t working.
The information we were given and the models we had weren’t good.
The information available about relationships, communication, healing and confidence is outdated or completely inaccurate…and still concentrated on fixing the problem. But most importantly, it isn’t working.
...That's why I created the
90 Day Relationship Remodel.
90 Day Relationship Remodel.
In this 3 month program you will:
GET CLARITY, DIRECTION, AND EASE IN YOUR LIFE.
(Get un-stuck, out of your head, and finally able to relax in the process.)
IDENTIFY YOUR UNIQUE NEEDS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT MIGHT BE DIFFERENT THAN EVERYONE ELSE YOU KNOW.
(Get out of comparison and trust yourself.)
UPROOT AND ELIMINATE DEEPLY HELD INSECURITY, SELF-DOUBT, AND PEOPLE PLEASING.
(Say "good-bye" to self-sabotage and "hello" to confidence.)
CLAIM YOUR SPACE AND TIME.
(No more waiting for permission, approval, or validation. You can be happy NOW.)
LEARN EFFECTIVE WAYS TO COMMUNICATE TO FOSTER COOPERATION AND ELIMINATE RESISTANCE.
(Communicate authentically without starting a fight, seeming needy, or compromising your values.)
LEARN THIS SUPERHERO SCIENCE NERD TRICK TO ACCELERATE SUCCESS.
(No martial art skills or costumes required.)
DISCOVER JOY.
(Be filled up from the inside and fall in love with your life.)
BECOME UNFUCKWITHABLE.
(Change how you show up in your relationship and become the leader of your life.)
What You Get/The Framework
Weekly Video Modules + Individual Coaching with Dr. JOYLYN Sparkles
Week 1: Introduction + Future Activation
Your initial consultation and intake coaching session gets you looking to your target. You get immediate gains and start of leaps and bounds ahead of where you’ve ever started up or left off before with Dr. JOYLYN Sparkles’ Future Forward Focus™ approach.
Week 2: Revealing Hidden Obstacles
You might know some spots where you trip up or get in your way, but there are some that are hidden in your subconscious. These obstacles are working undetected and unnoticed, wreaking havoc on your confidence and relationships. Bringing them to the light gives you the power to overcome them.
Week 3: Setting Your Priorities Straight
Ensure your foundation is solid and the relationship remodeling work will last. This week’s coaching will make sure that you know your values and priorities, that YOU are at the top of your list and discovering/remembering your JOY.
Week 4: Correcting Communication
Correct miscommunication and be heard! This week introduces general concepts that will facilitate connection and cooperation.
Week 5: Breaking Free From Judgment
Enlightenment: total freedom from judgment. Total liberation is probably going to take more than 90 days, but your spiritual awakening has begun! By this point you will notice things changing and see how this relationship remodel is going to upgrade your whole life.
Week 6: Dropping the “baggage”
Insecurity is the “baggage” we bring to relationships. We often misidentify ourselves as our insecurities, and that’s when we get stuck. Learn how to heal the wounds and break the habits that keep you from feeling safe, secure, and fully loved and lovable.
Week 7: Communication, Continued
Going beyond general concepts into pragmatic details that you can put into practice right away to restore connection and rebuild trust in yourself and your partner.
Week 8: Revealing Your Inner Superhero
You’re an empath (trust me). You’ve got an amazing superpower and now it’s time you get handbook so you can use it for you instead of having it used against you. You get to be happy NOW.
Week 9: Become the Leader of Your Life
The resentment, depression, and/or anxiety that have been holding you back are actually symptoms of you holding back. It’s time to get off the sidelines and step into the spotlight of your life. No more waiting. It’s your time. And when you make a move, you become a leader. This week will make it easier to step into this role.
Week 10: Alchemy
There are 2 key ingredients you need to turn your life to gold. This week’s video is going to show you what you need (that you’ve already got) to make your dream life a reality.
Week 11: Integration
It is already starting to come together and this week is where you get to tie up loose ends and make finishing touches to your relationship remodel.
Week 12: Celebration and Future Activation
You’ve come a long way, Baby! And by now, you’ll have the confidence and badassery to brag about how far you’ve come! Then, inspired by your own success, we’ll talk about the next future target you will real-ize as things continue to unfold and expand from your work over the past 90 days.
Bonus
Community + Coaching On Demand
Bonus 1: Community
Entry into the 90 Day Relationship Remodel program will get you into the HAPPINESS Brain Training Success Accelerator group coaching, where you will be surrounded and supported by a group of like-minded individuals who are learning new ways to put their future forward.
Bonus 2: Group Coaching
Join the HAPPINESS clinic group every Wednesday at noon (Pacific Time) for POWER HOUR—a group coaching call where you can join live or email questions or listen in on the response to other members’ questions to Dr. JOYLYN Sparkles and get some additional insights, tools, and tips in between your private coaching session.
Bonus 3: Coach in Your Back Pocket
For the times you find yourself back into a corner, just pull out your device because you get text access to Dr. JOYLYN Sparkles for the full 90 days of your program. You’re not alone.
Bonus 4: Future Possibilities + Surprises
As the HAPPINESS clinic grows, more groups, classes, and retreats are popping up. Be the first to know and get special Badass deals on all the goodies.
Be the beneficiary of my love of surprises. I wonder what will show up in your mailbox?!
Bonus 5: HAPPINESS shared
Get the best of both worlds: individual coaching + couple’s coaching. It’s a combination of both without doubling the price, and available to any couple—spouses, partners, family, friends. (Ask for details)
Space is limited to ensure personalized attention to each and every client.
Request your initial consultation to claim your spot in the 90 Day Relationship Remodel program!
Request your initial consultation to claim your spot in the 90 Day Relationship Remodel program!
HERE’S HOW YOU KNOW IT WORKS
You can be happy AF and lucky in love no matter how long you've been struggling.
WHY IT WORKS
IDENTIFY THE ROOT CAUSE
We do more than just target problem behaviors. Our process includes finding the actual root CAUSE—the unconscious, hidden patterns that undermine your confidence and sabotage relationship success. This is how we’ve helped so many people get changes that last when other methods didn’t work.
FOCUS ON THE FUTURE
Most work with relationships focuses on the problem and the past that created it, but this actually keeps you stuck in that very same problem. Changing your focus to the future immediately gets you out of your stuck spot, gives the motivation you need to move forward, and dramatically shortens the distance between where you are and where you’d like to be.
INSPIRE CONFIDENCE
Despite how you might feel right now, you are not “broken” and it IS possible to turn your relationship around. You’ve got what it takes to save your marriage and bring laughter back to your love life, and our coaching will give you the confidence and tools to believe in yourself and do just that.
KEEP IT SIMPLE, GET RESULTS
Resolving the patterns that sabotage relationships does not have to be difficult or take a long time. Coaching includes simple, targeted changes to improve confidence and communication habits, along with coaching to release buried or hidden trauma and outdated points of view—“baggage”— to confront detrimental patterns head on. My clients often see improvements within days to weeks, not months or years.
* Individual results vary. No guarantee of specific results is warranted or implied and your results will depend on many factors (full disclaimer).
LET ME GIVE YOU THE CLIFF’S NOTES TO HAPPINESS.
I learned the hard way so you don’t have to: happiness doesn't come from being serious or fixing problems.
Happiness comes from changing your relationship with yourself—prioritizing your future, your awareness, your joy…YOU.
I've taken my life experience, medical training, and insatiable science nerd interest in quantum physics and social sciences to create the 90 Day Relationship Remodel and make it easier to choose, change, and be happy AF.
It would be my honor and privilege to contribute to your happiness.
Dr. JOYLYN Sparkles
Creatrix, the HAPPINESS clinic & 90 Day Relationship Remodel
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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* Individual results vary. No guarantee of specific results is warranted or implied and your results will depend on many factors (full disclaimer).